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08th Dec 2015

Over 800 families will be homeless in Ireland this Christmas: Here’s one mother’s story

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JOE

Christmas should be a time of joy for people to gather and share the happiness of the season in their own homes.

However, this Christmas over 1500 children across the country will have no place to call home. These 800 families will experience the nightmare of homelessness this Christmas.

These families are forced to live in emergency accommodation. Often 3 or 4 people squeezed into one room with nowhere to cook or for children to play.

Sandra knows what it’s like not to have a home at Christmas. Like so many other families in Ireland today, Sandra and her three small children were renting their home. They never thought they’d ever be homeless.

But when the rent went up again – for the third time in three years – They couldn’t afford to pay it. Just two weeks before Christmas, Sandra and her young family were forced to leave their home and find somewhere else.

This proved impossible with rents spiraling out of control and a chronic lack of available housing. There was no place for them to go. The local authority placed the family in emergency accommodation in one small room on the top floor of a Dublin City Centre B&B.

At first Sandra was relieved. She had a roof over her head and a dry place for her children to sleep. Little did she know that she and her three children would have to remain in that one small room for nearly two years.

Sadly, the incredible thing about Sandra’s story is that it is not unique. Right now, all across the country, there are hundreds of families who are trapped in the same desperate spiral of homelessness. Describing being homeless Sandra remembered how Christmas was the most difficult as she struggled to keep the full horror of the situation from her children.

She said: “Christmas was the worst. The kids wanted to see lights and everything else. But we didn’t have that. We just had a little miniature tree, a few little decorations on the window and a calendar. That was it.”

The family was forced to live in that B&B for two years. It was only when Sandra made contact with Focus Ireland – that things started to change.

Focus Ireland helped Sandra negotiate her way through the bureaucratic housing system – helping her to successfully apply for rent supplement and search for affordable accommodation.

Focus Ireland also provided Sandra’s children with Child Support Workers to provide one-to-one practical and emotional support as being homeless can have a terrible impact on children.

Sandra says she will never forget the day they finally got a home of her own. “When I walked in the door for the first time, I got this feeling. I just knew – this was my home. I just knew it. It was amazing.”

Sandra’s life is completely different now. She no longer has to fight for space in a communal kitchen just to cook a meal for her family.

Her children are free to have friends over. And, with the security of a home of her own, Sandra has even been able to go back to work.

This year the family will have Christmas in the comfort of their own home. “The kids are all excited. They’re already planning what decorations to put up. And for the first time in a long time, we are even going to have a proper tree.”

Sadly more than 800 families nationwide will be homeless this Christmas.

The nightmare of homelessness has touched every town and every county in Ireland. Focus Ireland works to support these families and with your support the charity can help even more.

Donate now at www.focusireland.ie or call 1850 204 205

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Homeless