Mum refuses to tell partner gender of their baby after he skipped scan to go to the chipper

This wasn't the first time he chose to skip doctor's appointment with his wife

A soon-to-be mum has refused to tell her husband the gender of their baby because he skipped the scan to go to the chipper with a mate. Taking to the iconic Am I the Asshole Reddit page, the pregnant woman asked if she was in the wrong for not telling him. She explained that the two of them were excited to welcome their first child, but that her partner had missed previous doctor's appointments. The anonymous woman wrote:

"He's willing to miss the doctor appointment over soccer or a drink or board game with friends. His response is always 'I'm not the one carrying the baby, why do I have to go see the doctor with you?'"

Whilst she had managed to put up with this pretty out-of-order behaviour so far, it seems like this latest occasion was the final straw. Her partner said he didn't want to go to the ultrasound scan, because at the last minute a mate had invited him out for fish and chips. [caption id="attachment_373009" align="alignnone" width="2048"] The husband ditched the ultrasound to hit a chipper with a mate (iStock)[/caption]

New-found curiosity after chipper visit

She continued: "I was pretty livid but didn't make a fuss about it. Mom went with me instead.

"He texted asking me to tell him the results (boy or girl) but I refused to tell him. He kept spam calling me but I hung up each time." The soon-to-be mum revealed how her partner was pretty unhappy when he returned home as she wouldn't tell him what gender their baby is.

"He then called me dramatic since I wasn't alone and mom was with me. I said he gets no results period.

[caption id="attachment_373006" align="alignnone" width="1328"] (r/AmItheAsshole)[/caption]